web01.fireside.fm Thu, 23 Apr 2026 20:43:15 -0500 Fireside (https://fireside.fm) The Revelation Project - Episodes Tagged with “Divorce” https://revelationproject.fireside.fm/tags/divorce Wed, 14 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400 The Revelation Project is an individual and holistic movement that disrupts the trance of unworthiness and lifts the veils of personal illusion and cultural deception that keep us from remembering our divinity and inherent wholeness. The Revelation Project Podcast explores alternative narratives to traditional patriarchal influences that awaken, liberate and activate awareness. Join us to investigate vulnerable and courageous topics that reveal more magic, wonder, and beauty than we ever thought possible. Life is a revelation, and what gets revealed gets healed. en episodic Life is a Revelation Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC The Revelation Project is an individual and holistic movement that disrupts the trance of unworthiness and lifts the veils of personal illusion and cultural deception that keep us from remembering our divinity and inherent wholeness. The Revelation Project Podcast explores alternative narratives to traditional patriarchal influences that awaken, liberate and activate awareness. Join us to investigate vulnerable and courageous topics that reveal more magic, wonder, and beauty than we ever thought possible. Life is a revelation, and what gets revealed gets healed. no Goddess, Sacred Feminine, Awakening, Healing, embodiment, Sacred Masculine, Feminine Leadership, Erotic Power, Archetypes, Gnosis, Mother Wound, Patriarchy, Awakening, Divine Feminine Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC rodgers107@me.com Episode 83: Bethany Harvey - Dipped In It https://revelationproject.fireside.fm/83 2bab1e0f-3a73-4f68-a6e6-747c0b12d952 Wed, 14 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400 Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC full Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC Monica talks to Bethany about grief, gratitude, and the spectrum of emotion that came to be known when her father died. 56:53 no In January of 2017, Bethany’s father passed away, and she was tossed into the deepest, darkest well she’d ever imagined—without warning or ceremony. Something inside of her told her: “The only way out is to write.” She started with a gratitude journal to remind herself of all of the people she should be grateful for in her life. She realized, however, that grateful people didn’t feel the way she felt — angry, anxious, depressed, confused, disillusioned, desperate (to name a few of grief’s cohorts). Looking back, she realized that what she was actually doing was trying to avoid her grief. Like many of us, she didn’t know that gratitude and grief are not mutually exclusive. She learned that she couldn’t skip over the emotions that make her uncomfortable and recognized that there is a complicated cocktail of emotions swirling inside each of us that makes us feel alive. I talk to Bethany about the launch of her new book "Dipped In It," her odyssey into writing her book after the loss of her father, and the wisdom her emotions have brought to her life. Listen to her read a few excerpts and hear about how her daughters played a role in bringing her book to life. In this episode we talk about: * Postpartum depression & how this shared experience brought Bethany and I together after the birth of her daughter Ruby. * The cracking open that happened after her divorce and then the death of Bethany’s beloved father. * How the expression “Dipped In It” came to be and what it means to her. * Our tendency to want to skip over difficult emotions or spiritually bypass the ones that have the most to teach us. * Grief does not have an expiration date. There isn’t a specific time in which grief can be completed. It doesn’t work that way. * Why sharing our stories with others is so vitally important and why daring to go within ourselves to dip into our own well of grief is where we can find the greatest treasures. * How allowing ourselves to be where we are in our darkest human emotions is sometimes the greatest gift we can give ourselves. * How normal it is for us to want to look like we have it all handled, but how much it can hurt us when we don’t tell people that we are struggling. * Sometimes being a good friend is looking more closely at those around us and asking, “are you ok?” - because drowning doesn’t look like drowning, literally or metaphorically. * It’s ok for us to normalize not being ok. We can’t always be ok. That’s not how life works. * Grief and gratitude are not mutually exclusive. Our human emotions can exist within us simultaneously; all of it gets to belong. connection,consciousness,courage,education,feminine,healing,health,inspiration,love,revelation,selfhelp,selflove,spirituality,vulnerability,women In January of 2017, Bethany’s father passed away, and she was tossed into the deepest, darkest well she’d ever imagined—without warning or ceremony.

Something inside of her told her: “The only way out is to write.”
She started with a gratitude journal to remind herself of all of the people she should be grateful for in her life. She realized, however, that grateful people didn’t feel the way she felt — angry, anxious, depressed, confused, disillusioned, desperate (to name a few of grief’s cohorts).
Looking back, she realized that what she was actually doing was trying to avoid her grief.

Like many of us, she didn’t know that gratitude and grief are not mutually exclusive. She learned that she couldn’t skip over the emotions that make her uncomfortable and recognized that there is a complicated cocktail of emotions swirling inside each of us that makes us feel alive.

I talk to Bethany about the launch of her new book "Dipped In It," her odyssey into writing her book after the loss of her father, and the wisdom her emotions have brought to her life. Listen to her read a few excerpts and hear about how her daughters played a role in bringing her book to life.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Postpartum depression & how this shared experience brought Bethany and I together after the birth of her daughter Ruby.
  • The cracking open that happened after her divorce and then the death of Bethany’s beloved father.
  • How the expression “Dipped In It” came to be and what it means to her.
  • Our tendency to want to skip over difficult emotions or spiritually bypass the ones that have the most to teach us.
  • Grief does not have an expiration date. There isn’t a specific time in which grief can be completed. It doesn’t work that way.
  • Why sharing our stories with others is so vitally important and why daring to go within ourselves to dip into our own well of grief is where we can find the greatest treasures.
  • How allowing ourselves to be where we are in our darkest human emotions is sometimes the greatest gift we can give ourselves.
  • How normal it is for us to want to look like we have it all handled, but how much it can hurt us when we don’t tell people that we are struggling.
  • Sometimes being a good friend is looking more closely at those around us and asking, “are you ok?” - because drowning doesn’t look like drowning, literally or metaphorically.
  • It’s ok for us to normalize not being ok. We can’t always be ok. That’s not how life works.
  • Grief and gratitude are not mutually exclusive. Our human emotions can exist within us simultaneously; all of it gets to belong.

Links:

]]> In January of 2017, Bethany’s father passed away, and she was tossed into the deepest, darkest well she’d ever imagined—without warning or ceremony.

Something inside of her told her: “The only way out is to write.”
She started with a gratitude journal to remind herself of all of the people she should be grateful for in her life. She realized, however, that grateful people didn’t feel the way she felt — angry, anxious, depressed, confused, disillusioned, desperate (to name a few of grief’s cohorts).
Looking back, she realized that what she was actually doing was trying to avoid her grief.

Like many of us, she didn’t know that gratitude and grief are not mutually exclusive. She learned that she couldn’t skip over the emotions that make her uncomfortable and recognized that there is a complicated cocktail of emotions swirling inside each of us that makes us feel alive.

I talk to Bethany about the launch of her new book "Dipped In It," her odyssey into writing her book after the loss of her father, and the wisdom her emotions have brought to her life. Listen to her read a few excerpts and hear about how her daughters played a role in bringing her book to life.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Postpartum depression & how this shared experience brought Bethany and I together after the birth of her daughter Ruby.
  • The cracking open that happened after her divorce and then the death of Bethany’s beloved father.
  • How the expression “Dipped In It” came to be and what it means to her.
  • Our tendency to want to skip over difficult emotions or spiritually bypass the ones that have the most to teach us.
  • Grief does not have an expiration date. There isn’t a specific time in which grief can be completed. It doesn’t work that way.
  • Why sharing our stories with others is so vitally important and why daring to go within ourselves to dip into our own well of grief is where we can find the greatest treasures.
  • How allowing ourselves to be where we are in our darkest human emotions is sometimes the greatest gift we can give ourselves.
  • How normal it is for us to want to look like we have it all handled, but how much it can hurt us when we don’t tell people that we are struggling.
  • Sometimes being a good friend is looking more closely at those around us and asking, “are you ok?” - because drowning doesn’t look like drowning, literally or metaphorically.
  • It’s ok for us to normalize not being ok. We can’t always be ok. That’s not how life works.
  • Grief and gratitude are not mutually exclusive. Our human emotions can exist within us simultaneously; all of it gets to belong.

Links:

]]> Episode 43: Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt: Relationship. Are you sure you want one? https://revelationproject.fireside.fm/43 65d12874-4142-4bf8-adea-ec520e80f821 Wed, 30 Sep 2020 07:00:00 -0400 Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC full Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC In this episode, Monica speaks to Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt about relationships done differently. 59:28 no We spend so much time seeking an intimate relationship with a significant other, but rarely stop to think about what it really takes to have a successful one, and if we really want one. Meet Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt, Authors of Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One? Enjoy this candid, straight-talking, no-sugar coating relationship conversation and learn more about how Brendon and Simone help people to ask for what they truly desire, kicking the fairy tale romance to the curb. What is Relationships Done Different (www.relationshipsdonedifferent.com)? You should choose relationship from choice not a necessity! We want to see more kindness in relationships of all sorts. With your partner, kids, parents, and most importantly yourself! What if we could empower each other to be as great as we can be? A relationship shouldn’t be about fixing someone! It should be about creating 20 times more together than apart! What creates a great relationship? What are 3 things that will destroy any relationship? Why do people play hard to get? Do you believe in fairy tales and happily ever after? You talk a lot about “choice.” Why do you suggest to choose for you? Even in a relationship? What are the biggest relationship traps? If you are not happy, leave! connection,consciousness,courage,education,feminine,healing,health,inspiration,love,revelation,selfhelp,selflove,spirituality,vulnerability,women We spend so much time seeking an intimate relationship with a significant other, but rarely stop to think about what it really takes to have a successful one, and if we really want one.

Meet Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt, Authors of Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?

Enjoy this candid, straight-talking, no-sugar coating relationship conversation and learn more about how Brendon and Simone help people to ask for what they truly desire, kicking the fairy tale romance to the curb.

What is [Relationships Done Different](www.relationshipsdonedifferent.com)?

You should choose relationship from choice not a necessity!

We want to see more kindness in relationships of all sorts. With your partner, kids, parents, and most importantly yourself!

What if we could empower each other to be as great as we can be?

  • A relationship shouldn’t be about fixing someone! It should be about creating 20 times more together than apart!
  • What creates a great relationship?
  • What are 3 things that will destroy any relationship?
  • Why do people play hard to get?
  • Do you believe in fairy tales and happily ever after?
  • You talk a lot about “choice.” Why do you suggest to choose for you? Even in a relationship?
  • What are the biggest relationship traps?
  • If you are not happy, leave!

Links:

]]> We spend so much time seeking an intimate relationship with a significant other, but rarely stop to think about what it really takes to have a successful one, and if we really want one.

Meet Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt, Authors of Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?

Enjoy this candid, straight-talking, no-sugar coating relationship conversation and learn more about how Brendon and Simone help people to ask for what they truly desire, kicking the fairy tale romance to the curb.

What is [Relationships Done Different](www.relationshipsdonedifferent.com)?

You should choose relationship from choice not a necessity!

We want to see more kindness in relationships of all sorts. With your partner, kids, parents, and most importantly yourself!

What if we could empower each other to be as great as we can be?

  • A relationship shouldn’t be about fixing someone! It should be about creating 20 times more together than apart!
  • What creates a great relationship?
  • What are 3 things that will destroy any relationship?
  • Why do people play hard to get?
  • Do you believe in fairy tales and happily ever after?
  • You talk a lot about “choice.” Why do you suggest to choose for you? Even in a relationship?
  • What are the biggest relationship traps?
  • If you are not happy, leave!

Links:

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