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    <title>The Revelation Project - Episodes Tagged with “Vulnerability”</title>
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    <description>The Revelation Project is an individual and holistic movement that disrupts the trance of unworthiness and lifts the veils of personal illusion and cultural deception that keep us from remembering our divinity and inherent wholeness. The Revelation Project Podcast explores alternative narratives to traditional patriarchal influences that awaken, liberate and activate awareness. Join us to investigate vulnerable and courageous topics that reveal more magic, wonder, and beauty than we ever thought possible.  Life is a revelation, and what gets revealed gets healed.
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    <itunes:subtitle>Life is a Revelation</itunes:subtitle>
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    <itunes:summary>The Revelation Project is an individual and holistic movement that disrupts the trance of unworthiness and lifts the veils of personal illusion and cultural deception that keep us from remembering our divinity and inherent wholeness. The Revelation Project Podcast explores alternative narratives to traditional patriarchal influences that awaken, liberate and activate awareness. Join us to investigate vulnerable and courageous topics that reveal more magic, wonder, and beauty than we ever thought possible.  Life is a revelation, and what gets revealed gets healed.
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  <title>Episode 85: Ximena Vengoechea - Listen Like You Mean It</title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>Monica talks to Ximena about the Power of Learning to Listen.</itunes:subtitle>
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  <description>I have long believed that the most powerful, useful, and underutilized skill we have at our disposal is the skill of listening. 
If you want to help heal the world and create peace on earth - learn to listen! 
Meet Ximena.  She’s brilliant, articulate, and passionate about helping others develop this powerful skill. We had such a rich conversation about how learning this skill can quite literally change everything for the better.  
Ximena Vengoechea is a user researcher, writer, and illustrator whose work on personal and professional development has been published in Inc., The Washington Post, Newsweek, and Huffington Post. She is the author of the new book, Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection (from Portfolio Books/Penguin Random House). She is a contributor at Fast Company and The Muse and writes "Letters from Ximena," a newsletter on tech, culture, career, and creativity. She is best known for her project The Life Audit. An experienced manager, mentor, and researcher in the tech industry, Ximena previously worked at Pinterest, LinkedIn, and Twitter.
In this episode:
* Learn why listening is the key to intimacy and connection. 
* Why listening can be such a gift and such an act of generosity and love. 
* Why when people don’t feel heard, they often escalate their behavior and lash out. 
* Why listening is a “slow” skill and how to bring more peace into our lives by learning to do it. 
* There are layers to listening, and often if we are paying attention, we can hear other important things that get revealed when we truly listen. 
* How to protect yourself from being a listening martyr and getting listening fatigue. In other words, how can empaths protect themselves when they are deeply listening to others? 
* Learn how to listen with compassion without taking on the emotional energy of someone else.  
* Why awkward silence is such an important part of the listening skill set. 
* Conduct a relationship audit to determine where you have energy leaks.  
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    <![CDATA[<p>I have long believed that the most powerful, useful, and underutilized skill we have at our disposal is the skill of listening. </p>

<p>If you want to help heal the world and create peace on earth - learn to listen! </p>

<p>Meet Ximena.  She’s brilliant, articulate, and passionate about helping others develop this powerful skill. We had such a rich conversation about how learning this skill can quite literally change everything for the better.  </p>

<p>Ximena Vengoechea is a user researcher, writer, and illustrator whose work on personal and professional development has been published in Inc., The Washington Post, Newsweek, and Huffington Post. She is the author of the new book, Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection (from Portfolio Books/Penguin Random House). She is a contributor at Fast Company and The Muse and writes &quot;Letters from Ximena,&quot; a newsletter on tech, culture, career, and creativity. She is best known for her project The Life Audit. An experienced manager, mentor, and researcher in the tech industry, Ximena previously worked at Pinterest, LinkedIn, and Twitter.</p>

<p>In this episode:</p>

<ul>
<li>Learn why listening is the key to intimacy and connection. </li>
<li>Why listening can be such a gift and such an act of generosity and love. </li>
<li>Why when people don’t feel heard, they often escalate their behavior and lash out. </li>
<li>Why listening is a “slow” skill and how to bring more peace into our lives by learning to do it. </li>
<li>There are layers to listening, and often if we are paying attention, we can hear other important things that get revealed when we truly listen. </li>
<li>How to protect yourself from being a listening martyr and getting listening fatigue. In other words, how can empaths protect themselves when they are deeply listening to others? </li>
<li>Learn how to listen with compassion without taking on the emotional energy of someone else.<br></li>
<li>Why awkward silence is such an important part of the listening skill set. </li>
<li>Conduct a relationship audit to determine where you have energy leaks. </li>
</ul><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Ximena Vengoechea" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.ximenavengoechea.com/">Ximena Vengoechea</a></li><li><a title="Book - Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection: Vengoechea, Ximena" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0593087054/revelationpro-20">Book - Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection: Vengoechea, Ximena</a></li><li><a title="Newsletter -  Letters from Ximena" rel="nofollow" href="https://ximena.substack.com/">Newsletter -  Letters from Ximena</a></li><li><a title="Instagram - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/xsvengoechea/">Instagram - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)</a></li><li><a title="Twitter - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)" rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/xsvengoechea">Twitter - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)</a></li><li><a title="Pinterest - Ximena Vengoechea (xsvengoechea)" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.pinterest.com/xsvengoechea/">Pinterest - Ximena Vengoechea (xsvengoechea)</a></li><li><a title="LinkedIn - Ximena Vengoechea" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/ximenavengoechea/">LinkedIn - Ximena Vengoechea</a></li></ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>I have long believed that the most powerful, useful, and underutilized skill we have at our disposal is the skill of listening. </p>

<p>If you want to help heal the world and create peace on earth - learn to listen! </p>

<p>Meet Ximena.  She’s brilliant, articulate, and passionate about helping others develop this powerful skill. We had such a rich conversation about how learning this skill can quite literally change everything for the better.  </p>

<p>Ximena Vengoechea is a user researcher, writer, and illustrator whose work on personal and professional development has been published in Inc., The Washington Post, Newsweek, and Huffington Post. She is the author of the new book, Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection (from Portfolio Books/Penguin Random House). She is a contributor at Fast Company and The Muse and writes &quot;Letters from Ximena,&quot; a newsletter on tech, culture, career, and creativity. She is best known for her project The Life Audit. An experienced manager, mentor, and researcher in the tech industry, Ximena previously worked at Pinterest, LinkedIn, and Twitter.</p>

<p>In this episode:</p>

<ul>
<li>Learn why listening is the key to intimacy and connection. </li>
<li>Why listening can be such a gift and such an act of generosity and love. </li>
<li>Why when people don’t feel heard, they often escalate their behavior and lash out. </li>
<li>Why listening is a “slow” skill and how to bring more peace into our lives by learning to do it. </li>
<li>There are layers to listening, and often if we are paying attention, we can hear other important things that get revealed when we truly listen. </li>
<li>How to protect yourself from being a listening martyr and getting listening fatigue. In other words, how can empaths protect themselves when they are deeply listening to others? </li>
<li>Learn how to listen with compassion without taking on the emotional energy of someone else.<br></li>
<li>Why awkward silence is such an important part of the listening skill set. </li>
<li>Conduct a relationship audit to determine where you have energy leaks. </li>
</ul><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Ximena Vengoechea" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.ximenavengoechea.com/">Ximena Vengoechea</a></li><li><a title="Book - Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection: Vengoechea, Ximena" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0593087054/revelationpro-20">Book - Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection: Vengoechea, Ximena</a></li><li><a title="Newsletter -  Letters from Ximena" rel="nofollow" href="https://ximena.substack.com/">Newsletter -  Letters from Ximena</a></li><li><a title="Instagram - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/xsvengoechea/">Instagram - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)</a></li><li><a title="Twitter - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)" rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/xsvengoechea">Twitter - Ximena Vengoechea (@xsvengoechea)</a></li><li><a title="Pinterest - Ximena Vengoechea (xsvengoechea)" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.pinterest.com/xsvengoechea/">Pinterest - Ximena Vengoechea (xsvengoechea)</a></li><li><a title="LinkedIn - Ximena Vengoechea" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/ximenavengoechea/">LinkedIn - Ximena Vengoechea</a></li></ul>]]>
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  <title>Episode 56: Tabitha Lord - Writing Yourself Open</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC</author>
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  <itunes:author>Monica Rodgers | Revelation Media LLC</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>In this episode Monica speaks to Tabitha Lord about the power of vulnerability.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>59:47</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Tabitha Lord is an accomplished author and is known for her science fiction series: HORIZON. She has received several independent book awards, including the Writer’s Digest Grand Prize in 2016. 
In addition to writing novels and short fiction, Tabitha is a partner and senior writer for Book Club Babble and managing editor for the Inkitt Writer’s Blog. Recently, she’s tried her hand at writing romantic suspense under the pen name Maggie Clare. Tabitha lives in Rhode Island with her husband, four kids, and lovable fur babies. 
Listen in today as we talk about changing careers at 40, vulnerability, storytelling, raising kids, climbing mountains, and doing things that are hard but worthwhile.
Tabitha and Ray had only been dating for a few months when they found out they were expecting a baby. Tabitha had not yet reached her senior year in college, but they decided they wanted to try to make it work as parents, and once the baby was born, they decided to marry. 
Tabitha struggled with settling down, and while she loved being a mother, she did not yet embrace her role as a wife. 
After falling into an accidental career at her children’s school, at age 40, she decided that she wanted to become a writer.
It wasn’t until Tabitha’s fourth child was about three years old that she really allowed herself to truly love her partner Ray. Until this time, she always felt herself “holding back.”
Writing helped Tabitha explore and access a vulnerability she had not known in herself that gave her new insights and stirred new emotions. 
Her storytelling and writing gave her an outlet that opened doors into deeper relationships and experiences, and ultimately she began trusting herself in ways she had not formerly. 
Tabitha believes everyone has their own “art form” to discover, a creation process that they are uniquely suited to, and that part of life's challenge is to reveal it.  
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  <itunes:keywords>connection,consciousness,courage,education,feminine,healing,health,inspiration,love,revelation,selfhelp,selflove,spirituality,vulnerability,women</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Tabitha Lord is an accomplished author and is known for her science fiction series: HORIZON. She has received several independent book awards, including the Writer’s Digest Grand Prize in 2016. </p>

<p>In addition to writing novels and short fiction, Tabitha is a partner and senior writer for Book Club Babble and managing editor for the Inkitt Writer’s Blog. Recently, she’s tried her hand at writing romantic suspense under the pen name Maggie Clare. Tabitha lives in Rhode Island with her husband, four kids, and lovable fur babies. </p>

<p>Listen in today as we talk about changing careers at 40, vulnerability, storytelling, raising kids, climbing mountains, and doing things that are hard but worthwhile.</p>

<ul>
<li>Tabitha and Ray had only been dating for a few months when they found out they were expecting a baby. Tabitha had not yet reached her senior year in college, but they decided they wanted to try to make it work as parents, and once the baby was born, they decided to marry. </li>
<li>Tabitha struggled with settling down, and while she loved being a mother, she did not yet embrace her role as a wife. </li>
<li>After falling into an accidental career at her children’s school, at age 40, she decided that she wanted to become a writer.</li>
<li>It wasn’t until Tabitha’s fourth child was about three years old that she really allowed herself to truly love her partner Ray. Until this time, she always felt herself “holding back.”</li>
<li>Writing helped Tabitha explore and access a vulnerability she had not known in herself that gave her new insights and stirred new emotions. </li>
<li>Her storytelling and writing gave her an outlet that opened doors into deeper relationships and experiences, and ultimately she began trusting herself in ways she had not formerly. </li>
<li>Tabitha believes everyone has their own “art form” to discover, a creation process that they are uniquely suited to, and that part of life&#39;s challenge is to reveal it. </li>
</ul><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Tabitha Lord" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.tabithalordauthor.com/">Tabitha Lord</a></li><li><a title="Books: Tabitha Lord" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Tabitha-Lord/e/B01789A18Q/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1">Books: Tabitha Lord</a></li><li><a title="Maggie Clare" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.msmaggieclare.com/">Maggie Clare</a></li><li><a title="Twitter: Tabitha Lord (@tlordauthor)" rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/tlordauthor">Twitter: Tabitha Lord (@tlordauthor)</a></li><li><a title="Facebook: Tabitha Lord Jorgensen" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/tabitha.l.jorgensen">Facebook: Tabitha Lord Jorgensen</a></li><li><a title="Instagram • Tabitha Lord Jorgensen (@tabithalord)" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/tabithalord/">Instagram • Tabitha Lord Jorgensen (@tabithalord)</a></li><li><a title="Goodreads: Tabitha Lord" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/14545808.Tabitha_Lord">Goodreads: Tabitha Lord</a></li></ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Tabitha Lord is an accomplished author and is known for her science fiction series: HORIZON. She has received several independent book awards, including the Writer’s Digest Grand Prize in 2016. </p>

<p>In addition to writing novels and short fiction, Tabitha is a partner and senior writer for Book Club Babble and managing editor for the Inkitt Writer’s Blog. Recently, she’s tried her hand at writing romantic suspense under the pen name Maggie Clare. Tabitha lives in Rhode Island with her husband, four kids, and lovable fur babies. </p>

<p>Listen in today as we talk about changing careers at 40, vulnerability, storytelling, raising kids, climbing mountains, and doing things that are hard but worthwhile.</p>

<ul>
<li>Tabitha and Ray had only been dating for a few months when they found out they were expecting a baby. Tabitha had not yet reached her senior year in college, but they decided they wanted to try to make it work as parents, and once the baby was born, they decided to marry. </li>
<li>Tabitha struggled with settling down, and while she loved being a mother, she did not yet embrace her role as a wife. </li>
<li>After falling into an accidental career at her children’s school, at age 40, she decided that she wanted to become a writer.</li>
<li>It wasn’t until Tabitha’s fourth child was about three years old that she really allowed herself to truly love her partner Ray. Until this time, she always felt herself “holding back.”</li>
<li>Writing helped Tabitha explore and access a vulnerability she had not known in herself that gave her new insights and stirred new emotions. </li>
<li>Her storytelling and writing gave her an outlet that opened doors into deeper relationships and experiences, and ultimately she began trusting herself in ways she had not formerly. </li>
<li>Tabitha believes everyone has their own “art form” to discover, a creation process that they are uniquely suited to, and that part of life&#39;s challenge is to reveal it. </li>
</ul><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Tabitha Lord" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.tabithalordauthor.com/">Tabitha Lord</a></li><li><a title="Books: Tabitha Lord" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Tabitha-Lord/e/B01789A18Q/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1">Books: Tabitha Lord</a></li><li><a title="Maggie Clare" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.msmaggieclare.com/">Maggie Clare</a></li><li><a title="Twitter: Tabitha Lord (@tlordauthor)" rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/tlordauthor">Twitter: Tabitha Lord (@tlordauthor)</a></li><li><a title="Facebook: Tabitha Lord Jorgensen" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/tabitha.l.jorgensen">Facebook: Tabitha Lord Jorgensen</a></li><li><a title="Instagram • Tabitha Lord Jorgensen (@tabithalord)" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/tabithalord/">Instagram • Tabitha Lord Jorgensen (@tabithalord)</a></li><li><a title="Goodreads: Tabitha Lord" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/14545808.Tabitha_Lord">Goodreads: Tabitha Lord</a></li></ul>]]>
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